Recently I assessed a 6.5
year old boy who I have followed intermittently for constipation and soiling
since about four years of age.
His bowel health is no
longer a problem. He poops every day, either after lunch at home or after
school, and he has not had soiling for years. He still wets the bed and we are
waiting for him to mature a bit more before we start a bedwetting alarm.
His daytime bladder control
is usually very good but during December of his grade one school year he had problems
with daytime wetting. Over that month he needed a change of clothes several
times a week, but only at school. At home he was dry. He had enjoyed good
daytime bladder control for a long time and the first few months of grade one
were fine. Clearly something changed in December.
His Dad is a terrific
bladder and bowel detective and he had the answer ready before I asked. “It was
the fire alarm,” Dad reported. “My son was in the bathroom when the fire alarm
went off, and he refused to use the school bathroom after that.
This was the second grade
one child in six months who came to my office with the same story. School bathrooms
are not built to muffle sounds. The walls, porcelain fixtures, tiles, and metal
all reflect and accentuate the sound. I can imagine this would be a scary
experience for many early elementary-aged children. Time and a lot of
reassurance from Dad was necessary before the boy felt confident enough to use
the school bathroom again. By January he was back into a normal routine.
While many elementary aged
children might be frightened by the alarm only a few would stop attending the
bathroom for this. This boy had a history of other toilet fears and also some anxieties that were not related to the bathroom. At 4 years of age he didn’t like the sound of
“poop splashing.” He put his hand over his ears to block out the “flushing
noise.” He was concerned about the “toilet plugging.” The automatic flushing
toilets were a real concern for him in kindergarten. In the grade one bathroom,
he is not comfortable with the urinals and he will only pee standing up in a
cubicle and with the door closed. If there are too many boys in the
bathroom he won’t go in.
Anything that restricts
access to a bathroom is a potential trigger for daytime wetting. Toilet-related
anxieties are one of the common triggers.
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